One person can make a difference

It may not feel like it, but you can make a difference. One person can make a dramatic impact on a marriage. Yes, it would be easier if you were both putting forth equal effort, but one person can be the catalyst to change. 

Imagine, two people standing back-to-back in conflict. If both people are willing to turn around, then the couple will be face-to-face with the ability to be in a good relationship again. However, what happens when one person remains with his/her back turned, while the other person walks around to face him/her? They can still be face-to-face, even though only one person moved. Making the first move may just be what it takes to jump-start a change in your relationship. 

Don’t toss your treasures

You toss out or give away that which has no value to you. However, you guard the things you treasure. If you don’t realize that your marriage is something to guard as a treasure, you may rob yourself of an incredible future. Your marriage, even if it doesn’t feel like it now, is a priceless gift. Your marriage is made up of two priceless people! Your spouse is worth loving and your marriage is worth fighting for. While there may be trash in your marriage you need to toss, your marriage itself is a treasure. 

Your breakthrough is coming

Quitting is easy; breakthrough is hard! If you give up you may never experience the true joy you could have. Sometimes it may feel like you're hanging on by a thread, but perhaps it's a matter of hanging on for a little longer. Many times, when life feels the hardest, the breakthrough is near. In the end, the effort is worth it. 

If your marriage needs that breakthrough join us at Connection Pointe any weekend at connectionpointe.org/online.